How to Elope in St Louis

 This is the process for planning your St Louis/Metro East Elopement - - -



SET YOUR DATE

The first step in planning an elopement ceremony is to choose when you want to get married!  Some couples are attached to a specific date, but it helps to be flexible. This enables me to work with you to find a date, time, and location that works for everyone, including any guests you wish to attend. If you need some suggestions for beautiful elopement locations in St Louis, I can help with that too! Check out the LOCATION GALLERY 


While I try to help with last-minute requests whenever possible, the sooner you contact me to discuss availability, the better. Less than 30 days is not unusual. In most cases, I require a 10-day notice and payment upfront. I book up quickly, especially in the warmer months between April and October. 

To check my availability for your elopement date, please CLICK HERE

CHOOSE YOUR ELOPEMENT PACKAGE

I created three elopement packages to fit anyone’s needs and budget, and my pricing is based on the date, time, and location that you are getting married. I will always give you a fair price, regardless of which package you select. We are required to talk over the phone to receive a price quote, book a package and get more details.

Learn more about the SIMPLE ELOPEMENT or DELUXE ELOPEMENT or MARRIAGE LICENSE SIGNING

CONFIRMATION FORM

Once you have a date and package confirmed, complete a confirmation form. An email confirmation will follow with details to making a payment or payments. One week before your event date, an Email Review will be sent to announce your photographer (for the deluxe elopement) and schedule a time for the phone rehearsal. The phone rehearsal is required so we both know what to expect when we meet.  Make sure you’re aware of Missouri or Illinois marriage regulations! I am happy to answer any questions you may have.

Contact

Carolyn Burke - Wedding Officiant
(314) 669-4WED (4933)

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